I don't know, really - I guess that feeling where you really like spending time with someone, get excited about seeing/ talking/ being with them, think about them all the time, find yourself doing silly little things just to make them smile - all that kind of thing...
In my case it was like that at first sight. If the chemistry between the both of you sparks as soon as you meet then you have a good chance. The third date just confirms it. Except that one time I had to deal with a crazy ex girlfriend. That took me about 4 dates to realize she was Amy Fisher psycho. But generally, three dates.
I don't really have a good idea, either. I guess I'll come back and read after more people have commented. I don't feel like what anyone has written so far. I think those are all things in the beginning of a relationship, but when you've been in love or you love someone for a while, I think things change. It's not good or bad, it's just different.
it's love when you don't have to ask questions, when you can just sit together in the same room without saying a word and be happy about it, when you can't imagine life without them even when they piss you off, when you'd give anything just to see them smile... that's what love is.
I'm just curious how it is for others...I know what it is for me, wondering if it's different for everyone.
Though I do agree with dna princess, in that that it changes over time. The butterflies at the beginning will clam down, but are often times replaced with something else.
For me, in the long term, it's putting that person's happiness on an equal basis with my own and purposely overlooking their faults because I want to be with them regardless.
I agree the butterflies fade and the hyper factor goes down, but when it's replaced with a warm, comforting joy just to spend your days with them, that's perfectly OK with me.
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Your whole life gets fucked up haha. Kidding.
I don't know, really - I guess that feeling where you really like spending time with someone, get excited about seeing/ talking/ being with them, think about them all the time, find yourself doing silly little things just to make them smile - all that kind of thing...
In my case it was like that at first sight. If the chemistry between the both of you sparks as soon as you meet then you have a good chance. The third date just confirms it. Except that one time I had to deal with a crazy ex girlfriend. That took me about 4 dates to realize she was Amy Fisher psycho. But generally, three dates.
I can't wait to be with him and I can't wait to tell him everything I know.
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I don't really have a good idea, either. I guess I'll come back and read after more people have commented. I don't feel like what anyone has written so far. I think those are all things in the beginning of a relationship, but when you've been in love or you love someone for a while, I think things change. It's not good or bad, it's just different.
it's love when you don't have to ask questions, when you can just sit together in the same room without saying a word and be happy about it, when you can't imagine life without them even when they piss you off, when you'd give anything just to see them smile... that's what love is.
Why Kate? Who do you think you're in love with, hmmm? ;)
I'm just curious how it is for others...I know what it is for me, wondering if it's different for everyone.
Though I do agree with dna princess, in that that it changes over time. The butterflies at the beginning will clam down, but are often times replaced with something else.
A restraining order is just another way of saying "I love you"
Raf: are you giving it or receiving it?
For me, in the long term, it's putting that person's happiness on an equal basis with my own and purposely overlooking their faults because I want to be with them regardless.
I agree the butterflies fade and the hyper factor goes down, but when it's replaced with a warm, comforting joy just to spend your days with them, that's perfectly OK with me.
Not sure I've ever really been in love so I can't answer this question.
I dont think that it can really be explained. It's just something you know. Something you know without a doubt!
Marc
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