Do We Sabotage Ourselves?...........

I am conviced that we as women are more critical and more judgmental with each other and ourselves than men are about us. We are always harder on ourselves than we need to be. Thinking that we are worse looking than we are and that we'll never find the right man. Case in point..... I have a friend who will remain nameless, that is looking for a life long mate and says she wants to get married. However everytime a man shows interest she pulls away and then complains there are no good men out there and that men don't like her. She says its because she would rather end it before they can end it...... Theres a problem with this theory....Though its good in theory..... With that attitude you will never get married for you will never let it turn into that. I told her that she can't let fear stop her form living! That she needs to look deep inside her self and ask herself if she doesn't want to continue a relationship with this man because she truly is feeling that he isn't right for her or that she is just stopping it because of self doubt and letting fear rule her life. I hope that she.... And she knows who she is..... Can change her perspective to " I am beautiful and worth it" and not to be so critical of herself as we women tend to be. Sabotaging ourselves from living the life we were meant to live.......

Until next time.....Peace...............